Re: A doubt on gothras
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• November 12, 2002
The answer to your question lies in your posting itself. You had said that Gothram is based on a patriarchal lineage. Therefore, the wife converts to the Gothram of the husband's family after marriage, since Gothrams are determined based on the "kulam" or the family to which one belongs. Since the woman moves into a new family, she would be expected to follow those customs and rituals, as she would live in that family (which probably would have been joint-family system). When we look at Manu's Dharma Shastram, we see that if a Kshatriya marries a girl from the other 3 castes, viz Kshatriya, Vaishya, Sudra, the girl comes to live in the palace and lives the life of a queen, and hence converts to the rituals and customs of the destination. The reason why the child gets the father's gothram(in the case of Brahmins) is because of the fact that the seed(bijam) is considered the more determining factor than the field in which it is sown. The seed determines what grows out of it. But, if we look at elementary genetics, the off-spring has a pretty good chance of acquiring the mother's characteristics also. So there is come confusion as to why our ancestors chose the patriarchal gene pool as the dominating one. You would probably need to consult some expert on the subtle nuances of Dharma-Shastram to get your queries answered further. Radhe Krishna -- Pradeep -------------------------------------------------------------- - SrImate rAmAnujAya namaH - To Post a message, send it to: bhakti-list@yahoogroups.com Group Home: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bhakti-list Archives: http://ramanuja.org/sv/bhakti/archives/ Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
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