on Rama and Sita
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• January 18, 1996
Re: the debate on Rama's apparent "mistreatment" of Sita, could it be possible that this had something to do with the kind of marriage they had? There are eight kind of marriages prescribed in the Sastras namely: 1) brahma, 2) prajaapatya, 3) aarsha, 4) daiva, 5) gaandharva, 6) asura, 7) raakshasa and 8) paisaasa. Of the above, Rama's marriage with Sita comes under 'asura'. [brahma = giving a 12 year old girl to a 48 year old brahmachari (brahmana) prajaapatya = giving a woman when the man has asked for her aarsha = placing a woman between a golden cow and golden bull and giving her away to a brahmana as datta (along with the golden cattle) daiva = giving a woman to a brahmana who perform vedic rituals. (I am not sure of 3 & 4 as I have forgotten the precise definitions) gaandharva = a man and woman falling in love with each other with the consummation taking place in a clandestine manner without the knowledge of the parents. asura = winning the bride in a competition - as Rama did by breaking the bow, Arjuna won Draupadi and in the Tamil legends, Krishna took on the 7 bulls to marry nappinnai. raakshasa = a man taking a woman against her wishes (rape) paisaasa = a man taking advantage of a woman not in her senses (either she is drunk or is mentally retarded etc.) ] Perhaps there are also Dharma Sastra rules for the conduct in each of these marriages? I have no knowledge of any Dharma Sastras. I am merely asking the scholars here whether this had anything to do with Rama's treatment of Sita. Thanks. --badri -------------------------------------------------- S.Badrinarayanan Graduate Student Department of Mechanical and Aerospace Engineering Cornell University --------------------------------------------------
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